Although the wedding day is overshadowed by the bride's dress, you are probably one of the future brides-to-be just as excited about it. concerned about their attire. And you want a formal suit that will set you apart from the crowd of guests and that, at the same time, will not remain forgotten in the wardrobe, but can be worn on other occasions.
As beautiful and fun as the day of the party is, the preparations before the event can be just as stressful. If you are the future groom, we have created a complete guide for you with all the information to help you create an impeccable outfit to wear on your wedding day.
Find out everything you might be interested in: from what materials and colors you can choose for your formal jacket and pants, to how to accessorize your outfit!
Details to keep in mind when choosing the groom's suit
Traditionally, the groom's suit consists of a jacket (dinner jacket / tuxedo jacket), in black or navy blue, trousers of the same material and color, matched with a ceremonial vest or belt, depending on the jacket model, a white men's wedding shirt , a bow tie , and black groom's shoes, made of patent or polished leather.
However, nowadays the Black tie dress code offers a large number of outfit variations that can be used strategically to your advantage. Here's what you'll find useful to know as you plan each element of your outfit:
Groom's suit cut
In addition to your style, the first step in choosing the cut of a formal suit depends a lot on your body shape. That's why we can't rely on just one style:
- A classic, regular-fit suit : This is recommended if you usually wear a classic style. This suit is looser around the body - both the jacket and the trousers . However, a regular fit does not mean that the clothes will be loose on the wearer. When properly tailored, a classic suit will sit well on the body. This cut suits you if you have a more solid body structure .
- Slim fit groom suit : This is becoming increasingly popular among the choices of a true gentleman. Slim suits are tailored to better fit the body and better fit the wearer's body. It is not necessarily mandatory, but the cut is narrower around the arms, chest and waist. Both the jacket and the trousers are tighter around the waist and thighs. Such a suit will give you an advantage and will suit you especially if you have an athletic build .
- Groom's suit with a made to measure cut : The made-to-measure groom's suit is a middle ground between the classic and the slim suit, because all the measurements and fittings guarantee that you will have a suit tailored specifically for you and according to your body shape. In addition, a made-to-measure suit offers you other advantages: you can choose the type of material, the color, even the small details such as the look of the buttons and the shape of the lapel.
At the same time, if you choose to have a custom-made suit made, you save time, because you no longer have to go to stores to try on until you decide which suit is right for you. Use the time you save by taking care of other details of the big day. And how about embroidering not only your initials, but also the date of the happy event on the lining of your jacket? You will have a memory to enjoy for years to come.
2. Choose colors and prints that match the wedding theme
If your wedding has a theme, you've probably chosen specific colors. It's up to you how bold you want to be. You can wear the theme colors in accessories , or you can wear a colorful suit.
Opt for classic colors if you have a formal wedding
For a classic look, the most appreciated colors are black and navy blue . Both for the jacket and trousers, but also for accessories, a traditional style does not mean boring. It reflects elegance and gives a distinguished air to the groom. In addition, with such a choice you are sure that you will not fail and that you will not eclipse your wife.
Be bold with the design, colors, and prints of your suit if you're having a different wedding.
If you are going to have an unconventional wedding, then the outfits should also be appropriate. You, the groom, can add the most simple thing through the color of the jacket. Lately , new versions of tuxedo jackets have been worn, less formal , to the detriment of the classic jacket. And because the design is changing, then the colors must also adapt. The increasingly bold shades that grooms choose are: navy blue - an emblematic and timeless color, burgundy or dark green - colors that attract good energy, as well as red - the most suitable color to reflect love and passion.
3. Choose the best materials
The cut, colors, and material are always in harmony. If these don't combine harmoniously, you risk getting a suit that's uncomfortable. Because you'll be spending almost 24 hours in the same suit , the material must be comfortable . And at the same time, it is appropriate to look very good. How do you achieve this? choose quality fabrics .
Composition and weight of the material
Material composition is the most important. This may vary, but it is important that the material is made entirely of natural fibers (wool, silk, linen, cotton). One of the most important criteria when choosing a fabric for a formal suit is weight . Because it is important for the suit to fit well, avoid very thin fabrics because in their case the creases will be visible much faster.
A first indication of quality materials is the reputation of the manufacturer . Ermenegildo Zegna, Loro Piana, Dormeuil, Holland & Sherry or Lanificio Cerruti are the most famous fabric manufacturers worldwide, with an extraordinary range of materials and colors. Also in the material chapter, the fineness of the thread matters a lot. For wool , for example, the fineness is usually marked with the Super 100's indicator, but it also reaches super 250's . All threads are resistant, but the higher the number, the thinner, more precious the thread and the finer the material becomes . All manufacturers have fabrics for both warm and cold seasons, as well as fabric blends.
The season in which the wedding takes place influences what material you choose
Certainly, in the summer, the materials of a formal suit should be thinner , and in the cooler seasons, the textiles should be thicker .
Wedding suits for autumn-winter
Wool, velvet and brocade are the materials we recommend for winter. Velvet, besides giving us a plus in terms of style, it is a noble fabric, renders any color more intensely, and sits very well because it is denser . A mixture of wool with cashmere It is also a good choice in the cold season, the suit will be softer, more pleasant to the touch and to wear, and the cashmere will also help with thermal comfort.
Wedding suits for spring-summer
Even if the warm season means thin fabrics or blends with linen, cotton , we must keep in mind that the elegance of the suit should not be affected. 100% wool is still the best choice even when temperatures are high. You can also choose a wool blend with mohair , to achieve a thinner suit. Mohair will help with the wrinkling part, and another advantage is that it gives you a cooler feeling. If the place where the party or event is taking place allows for a more casual outfit, then you can also opt for linen or cotton blends in brighter colors.
What essential pieces should you have in a wedding outfit for the groom?
In addition to the cut and color, there are many other details that, when carefully chosen, make your suit the most suitable outfit for such an event. Discover in the following lines what to pay attention to when choosing the clothes, jacket and pants, as well as the rest of the accessories which compose a stylish son-in-law outfit .
1. The ceremonial jacket
What should the jacket look like?
The details of the jacket depend a lot on your body shape. There are choices that favor one type of man and another that highlights the strengths of another stature.
Jacket buttons
If you have a shorter stature and a more solid body , choose a jacket with a single row of buttons and a single button . This way you ensure that you create a Deep V , which gives the impression of a elongated trunk and gives the feeling of height. If you have a athletic conformation , or YOU thin and tall , opt for a A double-breasted jacket balances out the features of such a figure. However, be prepared to keep the buttons closed throughout the evening for a look that will benefit you.
Jacket lapel
The wedding jacket tailored according to the dress code of the ceremony It has no vents or flap pockets. Its lapels are pointed, to highlight the shoulders of the jacket. Any formal suit jacket should have peaked lapels. For a wedding, you can also choose the shawl lapel variant , the most formal of all, which can be made of satin or grosgrain.
2. Formal pants
What should pants look like?
The jacket is complemented by elegant trousers. A pair of black formal pants for men made of wool is the best choice for such an event, and if they are tailored to your measurements, they will definitely benefit you. Vipușca is the most important detail of these pants. She It is a thin strip that covers the outer seams. It is usually made of the same material as the lapels of the jacket.
3. The elegant wedding shirt
Regarding The ceremonial shirt , although it will be permanently covered by the men's suit jacket, must be impeccable: from fine cotton, always white, with a bow tie collar (turndown collar), tailored to closely follow the lines of the body.
Choose one white shirt, (French cuffs or double cuffs) , i.e. one that you can attach cufflinks to it to close the double cuffs . This type of shirt is more versatile and goes very well with the self tie bow tie. It closes with shirt cufflinks , and the chest of the ceremonial shirt is distinguished by plastron - which can be pleated or piqué . If the outfit you have chosen is in a stronger color and you have a less formal style , then the shirt can also be black or navy blue .
4. Vest for the wedding suit
With or without a vest at the party?
It is not right or wrong to wear a vest with a formal suit. Vest It primarily has an aesthetic role, because it gives the impression of a slender and elongated body, and will help you have a more athletic look, creating the impression of a elongated silhouettes through a long, slender line of legs . But in the ceremonial dress code, the vest has another role: that of to cover the waistband of your pants . If you want a formal outfit, you shouldn't miss it.
Besides adding a touch of elegance, it is also practical because you can take off your jacket when the party is in full swing and not be left with just your shirt. In addition, this piece solves the problem of your shirt sticking out of your pants, as the vest is the one that covers the waistband of the trousers. A double-breasted vest with a shawl collar looks better with the pointed lapel of the jacket. A single-breasted vest (3 buttons) fits a Shawl lapel jacket with a deeper, rounded opening.
5. Wedding shoes
Choose shoe style depending on how formal your wedding will be. For formal ceremonies and a classic wedding, Oxford shoes are traditionally recommended black . They go best with an elegant tuxedo. Make sure that the shoes do not stand out through color or shape, but through the simplicity of the model and the quality of the leather used . The groom's shoes should therefore be simple, without ornaments, brogue-type perforations or other elements that would fit them into the business/casual sphere.
Modern weddings Nowadays, however, there are also small deviations from the basic rules, and shoes in brown, beige, or even bold colors like red have become quite popular, especially if you want to wear something different. For a less formal wedding, and a more casual wedding attire , wear shoes Oxford shoes in brown, gray or beige . However, pay attention to how the color of the shoes is coordinated with the rest of the outfit. The general advice is that the shoes should be in darker tones than the rest of the outfit, or the same color as the suit, if you are wearing black.
For a truly unique summer wedding on the beach , choose a pair with confidence Loafers .
Shoe comfort
Another important criterion that you must take into account is The comfort of the shoes is important, especially since you will probably have to wear them for several hours on your big day. That's why your wedding shoes must respect the shape of the foot to ensure the necessary comfort throughout the day. As advice, your toes should not touch the toes of your shoes , and Your heel should not slide out when you step . Be sure to choose a pair of shoes that will not squeeze your foot or cause friction in pressure areas.
Choose a natural leather sole
Don't forget the wedding night dance floor when choosing your wedding shoes and choose a sole that doesn't have too much grip, or, conversely, too little. Avoid rubber soles, or hard plastic soles and look for shoes with rubber soles natural leather , to which a rubber sole can be added, which will give you the necessary flexibility and elegance of each dance step, especially when you show the world your first dance. Once you've chosen the perfect shoes for you, Don't wait to wear them until the big day , but wear them for 30 minutes at a time for several days at home, this way the shoes will stretch and the leather will take the shape of your foot.
6. Shirt buttons, the must-have accessory for every groom
The men's formal suit is the most important piece of clothing in the groom's outfit, but you should also pay the same attention to the accessories that complement the outfit. For the wedding day shirt, Cufflinks are irreplaceable. Although cufflinks are usually used on the cuffs of a shirt, for such an event and if you want a very elegant outfit, you can choose a set of cufflinks that will also replace the buttons on the chest, not just the ones on the cuff.
7. The Bow Tie
What do we choose for the wedding: Tie or bow tie?
The ceremonial suit matches always with a bow tie . A general rule of style is that the texture of the material from which the bow tie is made should repeat that of the lapels of the jacket. Always choose a bow tie made of natural materials such as velvet or silk .
Grooms usually choose a hand-tied bow tie or pre-tied , but a gentleman knows how to tie a bow tie self tie . And if you feel clumsy, the groomsmen can come to your aid at any time.
8. The belt - an accessory found only at very formal weddings
As with the vest, according to gala event etiquette, the belt is designed to cover the waistband of the trousers. It is not an outdated accessory, as some might consider it, but an extra touch of elegance for those who want to wear an extremely elegant outfit. The belt is accessorized with jackets with pointed lapels . A natural silk belt will highlight your waist and give you an extra touch of elegance.
9. Handkerchief - the color spot of any outfit
A handkerchief is a recommended accessory for elegant outfits. For your groom's suit, the options are unlimited when it comes to choosing a handkerchief. You can match it with your jacket or bow tie , you can match it with your new wife's wedding dress , you can choose it so that it provides a contrast to the groom's suit. You can also play a lot in the area of colors and prints .
10. Whales - your shirt collar will stay in place even after hours of dancing
Extra attention to detail is not superfluous on your wedding day. To be on point, there are small details that make your outfit stay the same throughout the event. Accessories that are never seen , but are part of any wedding shirt outfit arecollar pins . These little helpers give your collar rigidity, which will stay up until sunrise and the shirt will look impeccable .
11. The braces
Belt or suspenders?
If you have chosen a made to measure suit, you will no longer need a belt or suspenders . However, if you have to wear something, on the big day, choose to wear suspenders with your suit .
What groom suits to wear: 6 seasonal trends
1. Velvet Ceremony Suit
Velvet suits have been in fashion for some time now, especially for formal events. A very precious material, velvet has entered the preferences of international designers and continues to remain as strong in trends. You will create a current look if you choose a velvet jacket in classic black or navy blue or in bolder colors like green or coral .
2. The patterned suit
Many grooms will not wear black and do not have the courage to wear a patterned jacket. That is why this piece of clothing is niche. People who opt for this option ensure that they will be the center of attention, and will have a spectacular outfit. The jacket can support small patterns inserted into the fabric, even of a different color than the jacket fabric, embossed patterns of the fabric or different variations . Patterns can be found in the form of dots, polka dots, stripes , etc. The area of grooms who choose such a jacket is more restricted, but they certainly ensure a spectacular, perhaps even eccentric look.
It is worth mentioning in the case of such a jacket that there are very few 100% natural materials. To achieve certain effects and colors in the case of such clothes, a blend with synthetic materials is chosen . As a rule, natural materials are encouraged, but a patterned jacket may be an exception.
Plaid outfits
We will see plaid outfits for a few years to come. The trend that has returned is still going strong today, confirmed by all the international fashion catwalks that claim that nothing is more current than a plaid men's suit. If you choose a plaid wedding suit, you can wear it to other events as well , as it has been in fashion for a long time. Plaid is a little more demanding when it comes to matching with the rest of the outfit and lends itself to a more casual and relaxed look, but if you choose a pattern with small plaids and discreet lines , this detail will no longer seem like an inconvenience.
3. Woolen groom suit
Fabric is regaining its place on the throne this year. Thanks to the slim cut, fabric suits look better than ever . If your wedding takes place in the fall, in an enchanting place, perhaps even outside the city, in a rustic, country landscape, fabric is the ideal material for the groom's suit.
4. Morning Suit
After the royal wedding that took place in the summer of 2018, a trend was created, and the grooms started wearing this outfit with a frock coat , or “morning jacket” as it was originally called. Don't wear this outfit just because it was seen on one of the world's stars, but because it is an outfit that resonates with you. The biggest challenge for any man is to find those clothes that are consistent with his physical pattern and personality. A tailcoat will not look as good on a short person as it will on a man with a height of over 1.85 cm.
So, this 3-piece outfit (pants, frock coat and vest) is only suitable if your physique specifically recommends it. There is another very important factor to take into account, namely the context. The expression “less is more” has a strong and meaningful connotation. Maybe you want to wear this outfit, but the context and location of the wedding do not allow it. The 3-piece suit with frock coat is specific to the wedding with the highest level of formality, at a palace, or in a select, “royal” context .
5. The double-breasted jacket
Something more special than a simple, ordinary, everyday suit is the suit that has the classic double-breasted jacket . First of all, it is not worn that often because it is not the most comfortable option. The double-breasted jacket is always kept closed , whether you are standing or sitting at the table. It covers the waist so that it will be much warmer than a normal jacket. And because it is the cold season, this aspect is an advantage, because you will be much more protected from low temperatures and capricious weather . If you pay enough attention to details, we recommend that you, as specialists in men's style , opt for wider lapels , namely at least 9/10 cm. Optically, it enlarges a man's shoulders and back and slims the waist .
6. Pastel colors or raw colors
It was the first year when a large number of brides and grooms chose to stop having classic weddings, in contexts such as ballrooms or restaurants, and are moving towards relaxed weddings on the beach, near the forests, for a more rustic feel . The range of places chosen for the wedding party was increasingly mixed, and the Tudor Tailor team had the pleasure of creating ever more special outfits.
The stars of the summer were definitely the pastel colors . There were some favorite shades this year and they brought the bride and groom into an elegant and refined light. At the same time, one of the nice surprises of this year was the curiosity for raw colors. A lot of green of different shades was worn, strong colors like turquoise, orange, blood red . It is a sign that the bride and groom are getting out of their comfort zone and giving up monotonous clothes and are brave when it comes to masculine style.
Tips to guide you when choosing your groom's suit
Now that we've gone over every detail of a groom's suit, we'll conclude by mentioning a few rules to follow when choosing your outfit.
Don't outshine the bride, but be more elegant than your groomsmen
You can match your future wife, but let's face it - the bride is the center of attention on your wedding day. Make sure your outfit is elegant, but not more elegant than the wedding dress. However, be elegant enough not to be confused - it's an important event, where you can be bold enough for everyone to say "He's the groom!".
If you can, buy your own suit VS rent it
For the wedding, you can also rent an outfit that you can return after the event is over. We advise you to buy your own formal suit, which you will have for a longer time. If you choose an elegant suit, you can wear it to the following happy events: your friends' upcoming weddings, baptisms.
Choose a timeless formal suit
If a new suit is a real investment for you, choose a timeless suit that you can wear even in ten years. The black tie style, white shirt, suit, bow tie and black shoes will never get old, being a classic choice.
Don't overdo it with accessories.
Even though we have listed all the accessories that you can use for your groom's suit, this does not mean that it is mandatory to use them all. Choose the accessories that you like the most and that help you feel more relaxed. Finally, make sure that you have a neat and elegant look.
Choose a tailor with a lot of experience in made-to-measure suits
In our experience, a big role in the tailoring of a suit is played by the tailor. After choosing all the fabric details, textures, colors and prints, the way they are combined actually leads to a finished product of the highest quality.
Throughout his career of over 60 years, Mr. Vasile Miu has dressed legions of actors from the Buftea studios and on the stage of the National Theater, worked with the largest fashion houses and laid the foundations of the concept of made to measure in Romania. For 7 years, Mr. Miu has been with Tudor Tailor in its mission to transform the simple need to wear a suit into a lifestyle, an attitude and pleasure. Discover a album with the bride and groom who wore Tudor Tailor suits and whom we made happy on their wedding day.
Order your costume ahead of time
When choosing a made to measure formal suit, it is recommended to order it at least 2 months before the event. From Tudor Tailor's experience, they are usually made about a month before. small changes to the ceremonial costume .
We are waiting for you at Tudor Tailor
We want to be with as many future brides and grooms as possible when they are looking for the perfect wedding suit. Our fashion advisors are waiting for you in our showrooms in Bucharest, Cluj and Timisoara to help you make the best decision regarding your wedding day outfit. We are waiting for you in the Tudor Tailor showrooms where you will be carefully guided throughout your made to measure experience by a fashion advisor who will offer you style solutions adapted to your preferences, your silhouette and also your wedding.
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